Why do "words speak more than action"?

There is this friend I have and I really care for her. However, a few days back, she said something that really hurt me. She said that I am not her "closest" friend anymore. I seem to just be like any of her usual friends. And the reason for that? Is because, one day when she had called me up when she was upset and wanted to regain a friendship from me, I said that "Best friendship" cannot happen in a single day. Apparently, this had a huge huge impact on her.

Now the thing is, I might have said that to her and might have said to her due to some of my inner frustrations within me, that's true, but my action towards her till date reflect how much I care for her and how I treasure her friendship with me. I don't want to boast or something, but I have seriously cared for her and done a lot for her. And I did that, because I always thought of her as a best friend.

Par phir, why does all these actions do not seem to mean anything to her. Why does that one statement of mine, which I said, had a bigger impact than all the "actions" I have been doing for her. Why doesn't all this impact her equally?

I thought "Action speaks more than words"? Why does it seem to be the other way round here!

Girls seriously!!!!

Ok...so i know majority of my blog is read by female members. This post may be have a negative connotation to them but i just want to have a "disclaimer" that there are certainly exceptions and what i am going to mention is some sort of generalization (which perhaps i should not make since my sample size is really small) from what i have seen and the girls i have interacted with...

so ya...i think going back to my original context...i think Girls really need to GROW UP and start acting mature!!!! the other day, I was talking to a friend of mine and I was just stunned at the stuff she was talking in context to her past relationship...i was like "how can you do that.. That is JUST WRONG!" and all she could say was "Well I know, but I couldn't help it"... I mean come on! ....if u cant help it then u dont deserve to be in a relationship...think of the other person in the relationship and what he would go thru because of this behavior!!!

Gosh...I am so pissed off with the female members of the human populations! and too bad i would need to love one of them!

We all say Girls are emotionally more mature and all, but from my experience, I think girls cannot even control their minds!!! One day, they are into something, and the very next moment, they go into something else!!! God Dammit! Did you gals hear something called self-control and maturity!!!!

I have seen it with two girls whom i know quite close...the way they have dealt relationships is just WRONG and immature! They have NO RIGHT to play with a GUYS feeling like that!

Jab Guys move away from the relationship, then the whole world thinks that the guy is a cheat! But when Girls do the say, then o well, its some emotional crap which guys need to understand and cooperate...wt hypocrisy!!!!

all i want to say is just imagine yourself in the guys shoes...wt if ur guy treated u like tht...how would you feel? how wd u like it if the guy u loved so much one day dumps u just because he was "out" of it....

As it comes to an end, i have no more tears left

im really tired and exhausted now...at the same time i am feeling very strange and sad...

for the past few months i had been planning something....something i had been so much looking forward to...'the past three days'...

and now....after these three days... it is hard for me to grasp tht its over...i mean...something i have been waiting for all this while ....and now its over and finished...

the three days werent bad...it was actually nice... but wt im feeling strange is at the fact that it just flew by and tht its all over..tht something, which i have been waiting for ages, just seemed to blaze by...talk about relativity!!!...im back to S***** and I have to return to my usual workplace tomorrow....

the past few days brought in a lot of emotions in me...but i had no one to express it out... i wanted to cry out loud but i realized i had no more tears left in me...just absolutely no more! i just want to go back to those good old days...plz...its killing me from within...its literally killing me...

Selfishness...

So today I woke up with such a weird feeling.... first of all i woke up kinda late that pissed me off since i thought ill wake up a bit early to get some of my work done and then i see all these weird dreams!

anyhow...i have met some people i so much wish i never ever met.... i cant believe how such people could ever exist...just pure selfish! ... apparently, they dont care about anything else except their own lives... they dont even have the "common courtesy" towards friends! As a friend...i dont even expect much, but when that friend's attitude turns out to be 'like that', it just purely disgust me...

i just feel so sorry for them...